How to Make Your Friendsgiving a Little More Jewish (and a Lot More Meaningful)
November 3, 2025 | Shabbat and Holidays, Tips and Resources
By Jodi Teitelman
Fall is my favorite season — the colorful leaves, crisp air, an excuse to live in cozy sweaters, and, of course, all the warm, comforting food. I’m sure I’m not the only one who looks forward to celebrating the season with friends over a good meal. Friendsgiving has become one of my favorite traditions. It’s a chance to gather with loved ones, share laughter and celebrate the beauty of friendship.
My friends know to expect something a little Jewish from me at friendsgiving, whether it’s a Jewish-inspired dish, a moment of reflection on a Jewish value or a fun nod to the tradition of tikkun olam (repairing the world.) You can easily add a Jewish touch to your friendsgiving celebration that deepens connection and brings a bit of tradition to the table.
Here are a few ideas to make your Friendsgiving feel a little more Jew-ish — in the best way.
Start with Gratitude
Before diving into the meal, take a moment to bring a sense of intention to your meal.
- Go around the table and have everyone share something they’re thankful for this year. This is a simple way to practice hakarat hatov (recognizing the good).
- Say the Shehecheyanu blessing as a way to celebrate the joy of being together. This prayer is traditionally said when experiencing something new or special.
Mix in Jewish Flavors
Friendsgiving menus are made for creativity, so give your favorite dishes a Jewish twist! Check out these recipes as inspiration for your meal:
- Entree: Fresh Cranberry Braised Brisket
- Side: Everything Bagel Challah Stuffing
- Dessert: Middle Eastern Spiced Pumpkin Pie
Do a Group Mitzvah (Good Deed)
Friendsgiving is about gratitude and community, so why not make that spirit tangible? Ask everyone to bring a canned good, winter clothing item, or small donation for a local food pantry or shelter. You could even take up a small group collection and choose a cause together.
Bring in a Jewish Value
Looking for a conversation starter that’s deeper than “What’s your favorite pie?” Try centering your dinner around a Jewish value.
You might choose:
- Kehillah (community): What makes us feel like we belong?
- Tikkun olam (repairing the world): What’s one small way we can give back this season?
- Simcha (joy): What’s bringing you happiness right now?
Bringing It All Together
At its heart, Friendsgiving is about gratitude, connection and community — values that are deeply Jewish, too. Adding a small touch of Jewish tradition or meaning doesn’t require a big effort; it just brings more intention and warmth to what you’re already doing.
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